What’s up ? Hey, I’m NOT your CPA; but here’s what I am.
This old man has spent more than five decades in the business world. The majority of my corporate experience has been as an investment advisor with a major Wall Street firm. And during my corporate career:
I earned my MBA in Accountancy at age 57,
I taught Computerized Accounting at the University level, and
I became registered ( P T I N) with the IRS to prepare U.S. Federal Tax Returns.
So let’s talk straight. Let’s talk about your taxes.
Now. Let’s start again with the MAJOR reason to file your 2015 income taxes early.
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You deserve to get this task off of your mind.
1.) You DESERVE to get this task off your mind.
You deserve this freedom.
Not many people talk about this point. Just get it OFF OF YOUR MIND. File your taxes early to set your mind FREE for more productive and fun reasons.
It doesn’t take a genius to do your taxes. Watch video.
But it does take genius tax software. Designed to be so simple that your kids could do your taxes for you. Now that’s genius.
Do your 2015 income taxes early.
You deserve the freedom, the peace of mind.
You are worth it.
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You know how an undone task – like filing your income taxes – creates MENTAL CLUTTER. Mental clutter that is constantly nagging in your head. Clogging your brain with unnecessary background noise. This nagging unfinished task sucks all the energy out of you.
And the closer you get to that important deadline of April 15th – the more distracting this undone task becomes. The louder the nagging background noise becomes.
And if you’re like me – just STARTING relieves a lot of emotional pressure. Just getting this done TRUMPS ALL of the other solid financial reasons for filing early.
Take it from someone who has filed personal income tax returns for more than 40 years. Do it now. File your income taxes early.
Start now. It doesn’t take a genius to do your taxes.
2.) You will get a FASTER REFUND…
… by doing your income taxes early.
A real “duh” financial reason. If the government owes you a return on taxes you have paid, file early and get this money WORKING for you – or “PLAYING” for you. Plan that SPECIAL vacation. Early.
Plan that special vacation – that escape to the islands.
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Get extra time to pay that balance due.
3.) You will get EXTRA TIME to pay a balance due…
… by doing your income taxes early.
Ugh ! And if you owe a balance due to the IRS, then you know that final number today. Not tomorrow. So you can plan – or make arrangements to pay the IRS.
Know this number in advance so that you are NOT STRESSING unnecessarily.
Kindergarten WAS the Most IMPortant Year of Your life.
And now …
Kindergarten IS the most IMPortant year of your child’s life.
Agree or disagree, but the fact still remains: the MOST IMPORTANT YEAR of life is kindergarten.
the MOST important year of life
The current research says that our personality is FULLY FORMED by age 7. The only thing that has changed about that statement in 60 years is that in the 50’s and 60’s the experts would say that your personality is FULLY FORMED by age 6.
One year (from 6 to 7) is the ONLY THING about that statement that has changed PER THE EXPERTS in 60 years.
Is it Minecraft, Clash of Clans, Halo, or iPhone apps ? Moms and dads, I understand your busy lifestyle.
But YOU GET TO DECIDE what your priorities are. Not what you WANT your priorities to be; but what your priorities ARE BASED ON YOUR ACTIONS. Talk is cheap. But YOUR ACTIONS tell me what your priorities are.
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I thought about being gentle …
… and politically correct in my approach to this topic, but the STAKES ARE TOO HIGH.
Your child’s entire life is at risk.
Our whole nation IS AT RISK as we model value systems for our children.
And being politically correct usually accomplishes ONLY ONE thing. You are politically correct.That’s all.
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And by being politically correct all of your GREAT IDEAS ARE NEUTERED while you A-L-M-O-S-T SAY what you believe in politically correct terms. And NOTHING changes !
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let’s be bold as a Jedi
So let’s be bold.
The STAKES ARE HIGH. It’s time to take a stand for being involved in your child’s education.
Be aware. When you are bold in this belief, you will have YOUR HATERS.Haters are gonna hate. That’s what they do.
Kindergarten | Most Important Year
But the MOST IMPORTANT YEAR of life is kindergarten.
I understand, moms and dads. You are spending most of your life’s energy and resources climbing the CORPORATE LADDER, creating a career, paying the bills, and building your PROFESSIONAL RESUME. For what ? So that you can do what ? Retire well, travel, consult, blog?
And you need some help.
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you feel overwhelmed and need some help
The fact still remains: the MOST IMPORTANT YEAR of life (your child’s or grandchild’s life) is kindergarten – PERIOD. This is the year when your child learns how to learn, learns how to respond to authority figures and feedback.
Your child also starts to realize that there are other little people who also believe that they are the center of the universe.
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So how involved and proactive are you?
…during this MOST IMPORTANT YEAR ?
readers become leaders || they learn by example
Being involved is NOT telling your children to go do their homework while you’re sitting on the couch with your iPhone or watching ESPN or Netflix. This is not being involved. This is avoidance.
Or putting the iPad in front of your child instead of doing homework with them. Or instead of reading with them.
Hey, we’re all guilty of doing this because we’re TIRED and MENTALLY LAZY.
But being tired and mentally lazy are not good reasons – just weak excuses.
Get off the couch. Turn off the video games and ESPN and NetFlix.
Dads and Grandpas, we gotta be proactive.
Being involved in the MOST IMPORTANT YEAR of your child’s life is NOT telling your children to go do their homework while you’re on the couch with your iPhone or watching ESPN or Netflix.
Kindergarten is the…
…most important year of life.
Here’s what I have discovered as a parent and grandparent. Children RESPOND WELLto a structured program of study.Parents, even when your children complain, after this structure is implemented; they look forward to this time. For us, after school we have a brief (10 minutes) “chill time.” And while eating a healthy fruit snack, we do our HOMEWORK EVERYDAY after school.
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SAME TIME and SAME PLACE.
SAME STRUCTURE and SAME ROUTINE.
Right after school.
This system works.
The children like this routine because now they have the ENTIRE EVENING FREE.
In fact, just this afternoon, Lucas, my grandson, and I worked on his math homework. When we finished, he was bragging that he was two days EARLYfinishingthis assignment. This is NOT the way it used to be before we started having a structured time and plan for doing homework.
And right now Lucas and Daniel are enjoying a movie with their mother, because they both have a structured routine of getting their homework done first.
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America’s Grandpa is a Hypocrite !
I am a hypocrite, and I’m cheating a little.
I do cheat a little by adding some M&M’s to the study routine. For the kindergartener, M&M’s [Grandpa-Approved M&M’s] do help with LEARNING COLORS and COUNTING.
Today we did some multiplication and addition and subtraction using M&Ms. And word problems. By the way, the student gets to eat his successes. And the teacher gets to eat any mistakes. So the student is motivated.
And I have convinced our kindergartner that chocolate provides ADDITIONAL BRAIN POWER for reading and counting.
Hey, criticize me, but I believe (for me) this is an ACCEPTABLE COMPROMISEfor now while we are building a CONSISTENT ROUTINE and work habits.
This important year is when our children learn the ENJOYMENT of reading and the ENJOYMENT of learning. And the comfort and satisfaction of routinely getting the job done. The kindergartener is learning very IMPORTANT LIFELONG VALUES.
Do you want your child to know how to read, write, and know some math ? At least, learn enough math to balance a checkbook or to give proper change at McDonald’s ?
How many times have you met a high school student at McDonald’s that can not give the proper amount of change if the exact number is not on the cash register ? Frustrating and embarrassing, isn’t it ?
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Flat Screen GODs
Beware of the “Flat Screen Demons.”
Here’s another tough question.
Do you want the “flat screen demons” to educate your children ?
Do you want your children’s major skill sets to be learned from Clash of Clans, MineCraft, and the newest version of Halo: Guardians ?
I’m not against all computer games and apps. Or ESPN, NetFlix and Amazon Video. In fact, I AM AN AVID BELIEVERin using technology – computer tablets and computer apps and games and iPhone apps and games. I am concerned about the number of hoursplaying video games and apps and NetFlix.
And you thinking that you are interacting with your children while you are watching NetFlix together. You are not interacting.
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And if your child is going to CREATE APPS and GAMES some day, they will need to know how to read and think and EMBRACE CONSISTENT WORK HABITS.
Remember, as you watch ESPN and Netflix and play Candy Crush instead of reading with your children, you are now actively TEACHING THEM HOW TO PARENTtheir children.
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Kindergarten | Most Important Year of Life
to the dads
Dads, it is time to become fully engaged in your child’s educational process.
Your obsession with watching sports and chillacking on the couch.
This is NOT engagement with your children. This is conscious avoidance.
Football,
basketball, and
your favorite Netflix series.
It can all wait until later. Years later.
There are a lot of changes expected of your 5-year-old kindergarten child.
This is when clear expectations and structure and schedules at home become even more important.
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Celebrate
Praise | Celebrate with a HASHTAG SELFIE.
Clear expectations and structure and schedules at home become even more important. And having some good habits like…
A regular sleep schedule is paramount.
A regular study schedule is paramount.
Praise for doing well.
Praise often.
Celebrate with a special event.
Celebrate with a hashtag selfie.
Put their BEST SCHOOL WORK on a Wall of Fame.
Healthy eating – WITHOUT all the sugar – aids in this learning environment.
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Kindergarten is …
… the most important year of life.
The stakes are high. You do NOT GET A SECOND CHANCE at the first 7 years of your child’s life.
kindergarten is the MOST IMPortant year of life
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America’s GRUMPiest Grandpa is writing …
… on behalf of America’s children who deserve a quality education and on behalf of America’s educators who deserve to have parents who are daily advocates of education and supporting their children’s educational experience.
And grandpa’s comments are directed at dads who need to be more involvedin their children’s education.
America’s GRUMPiest Grandpa is also writing on behalf of my daughter who is an educator and would appreciate (along with all educators) parents being more engaged in their children’s education.
If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree …
… it will live its WHOLE LIFE believing that it is stupid. – Albert Einstein
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Did you know … ?
So you know a fish that cannot climb a tree,
… and you call HIMstupid ?
Maybe you don’t do this, but others do. They call a fish stupid just because he can’t climb a tree — and you allow them to say this.
Or you are just not aware.
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Don’t judge me. I am a BEAUTIFUL person. I am Isabella.
The real question is …
My question is: WHO is really stupid in this picture ?
You — or the fish that can’t climb a tree ?
“If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its WHOLE LIFE believing that it is stupid.” – Albert Einstein
We call people stupid quickly.
We judge people quickly. Just because they can’t “climb a tree.” Just because they can’t do something everyone else can do.
Or because they can’t do it as fast.
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We do it differently. AND we WILL finish.
Or because they do it differently than you do it.
If someone with no legs entered a marathon and finished in last place, would you call her a poor runner ?
Would you criticize her ?
Would you berate her for finishing last ?
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No, we would create a YouTube video.
No, we would hire an army of videographers equipped with GoPro Hero cameras running beside her. And we would create a YouTube video about how brave and courageous this person is.
We would add some inspiring music. In the video we would embed quotes from great leaders and athletes. We would post this video to our YouTube channels and promote this video via Facebook, Google+, and twitter. We would create a Vimeo version of this video.
We would email this inspiring blogpost with the video to our friends and subscriber list. And we would encourage all of our friends to watch the video of this amazing athlete finishing a 26.2 mile run with no legs. Or artificial legs.
AND finishing in last place.
She still finished in last place.
We would applaud her efforts. We would be inspired as we watch this video accumulate 1 million views the first day. And then 17 million views by the end of the week.
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We applaud her efforts — NOT her performance.
And, remember, this runner finished in LAST PLACE in a marathon – clearly a very poor performance. According to our standards.
Would we berate her for not training adequately ?
Would we criticize here for lack of effort ?
Would we say that she is an embarrassment to our family ?
Would we constantly remind her that she finished in last place ?
Especially after the family spent all that time and money on her training ?
Would we shout in her face and remind her that everyone else’s best effort was better than her effort ?
No, we would NOT do any of those derogatory things. I HOPE no one would do that. Few people are that insensitive.
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No one is that unaware of this runner’s personal challenges.
Would we ever berate an employee with less talent who underperforms ? Some of you would.
Would we ever scold and berate a child who learns in a different way or at a different rate ? Unfortunately, some of us do.
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“If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” – Albert Einstein
This is very sad. But I have seen parents and others who do the same thing with children who learn differently. And treat these children like they are inadequate. And use the words “stupid” and “retarded.”
In the 50’s when I was attending elementary school and a student learned differently, they were treated as if they were stupid and called different versions of the word stupid (dumb, retarded, slow, dense, unintelligent). Other children actually called them “retards.” And before all of today’s special testing, we know that some of these students did have undiagnosed learning disabilities (The movie character, Forrest Gump, is a vivid illustration of how children were treated in the 50’s and 60’s).
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No one should EVER wear a dunce hat
What are the negative results of a dunce hat?
The educational system placed them (the fish that couldn’t climb a tree) in the corner and put a “dunce hat” on them.
The teacher would draw a circle on the blackboard and have this student stand with his nose in the center of the circle on the blackboard.
What a sad public display of bullying via embarrassment.
I still wonder how some of these children survived. Some didn’t survive.
One of my elementary grade classmates didn’t survive. He killed himself in the 50’s. I was young and don’t recall all of the details, but this is what I do remember. On the weekend, when no one was at school, he stood on a shopping cart, pushed it away and hung himself from a tree in the school yard.
No one knows the whole story about this young boy. In those days, the police did not investigate the suicide deaths of young children. Especially a young boy of a high profile family in the community.
After all of our training and education, we believe we have evolved in our attitudes towards different styles of learning. But we haven’t yet.
Imagine if you are a young child, and you are berated by an authority figure (parent, grandparent, teacher, coach) because you can not perform well in a certain environment.
You quickly start believing this false information about your abilities.You believe that you are stupid, and you believe the rest of the world is better than you. After age 7, the experts say this becomes that child’s view of themselves. Forever.
And this self perception will change only slightly over the course of a lifetime.
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Unfortunately, I have seen this happen.
You need to ask yourself — I need to ask myself: have I ever been guilty of this kind of treatment ? In some way I believe we all have done this– due to lack of patience.
Or we have just focused our anger on a child because we had a bad day.
Have you ever observed a child being berated because his best effort was not adequate per the expectations of the parent ?
So a young child is berated and scolded. Just because he learns differently. Just because he is a FISH WHO CANNOT CLIMB A TREE.
He is scolded to the point of tears because his BEST EFFORTS did not equal the best efforts of his classmates or teammates. And did not meet someone’s expectations.
What is your child’s best effort ?
Exactly what is your child’s best effort ?
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Reward your child’s best effort. NOT just performance.
Let’s talk about your child’s best effort. What is your child’s best effort ? If you and I learn in the traditional (whatever that is) fashion, how would we know what a child’s best effort is ?
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We don’t know.
We only know what our best effort iswith our skill set.
If you and I have two legs, how would we know what it is like to walk or run (or drive a car) without legs ? Or “be a fish who is expected to climb a tree ?”
We just do not know how this feels.
When I was younger, I did not understand old people’s slow pace of walking. I spent some time judging and criticizing these old people. And, of course, how these old people drive.
Now I move very slowly with a cane. I don’t believe I’ll be running a marathon this year. But if you want to judge old people based on your running skill sets, then please do so.
I’m just another fish who cannot climb a tree. Or who cannot run a marathon today.
If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree,
it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.
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Here’s the point of Einstein’s quote.
If you and I are NOT fish, how can we understand a fish trying to climb a tree ? We cannot.
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What if your child is NOT athletic?
Be grateful for their imagination
If one child is more athleticthan another child, do we still berate the unathletic child ? I have seen some parents still scold for “underperformance.” What if that child is a “fish trying to climb a tree.“
How do we know what that child’s best performance really is ?
Thankfully, some of us have grown mentally and emotionally over time. Some have not.
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Do you have a “non tree climbing fish” in your family ?
If we have a “fish” in our family who can not climb trees, instead let’s think about their swimming talents. Let’s be grateful that we have a good “swimmer” in our family. And not a tree climber.
Let’s celebrate their difference.
Our creator entrusted us with the task of caring for and nourishing a “fish” in the family – not a tree climber. We don’t know what their special “swimming” skill is yet.But let’s not kill the spiritof the fish before she discovers her “swimming” skills.
Let’s be encouragers of her special talents.
Thank God for different thinkers. Thank God forAlbert Einstein, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Richard Branson.
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Embrace their inner fish
And embrace their inner fish – whatever hidden talent that is. And be grateful that someone did not label you as a “stupid retarded fish” who could not climb a tree.
These negative labels kill the spirits of young children. Destroyed spirits that cannot be revived.
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Just another fish …
I still remember that day – 58 years ago – when I heard my classmate had killed himself by hanging himself from a tree. Somehow that tree in the country school yard wasn’t fun to climb anymore.
I guess he was just another fish who couldn’t climb a tree.
And play is even more fun when adults do NOT interfere and
DO NOT keep score of their mistakes.
Watch children playing MineCraft. A recent independent study confirmed that children love the CREATIVE PLAY of MineCraft with NO ADULT INTERFERENCE.
Watch children of ALL ages …
… when they are practicing their newest skateboard move. They do it again and again AND AGAIN until they get it right. Then – after a little success – comes the EPIC – CELEBRATION – DANCE.
A-r-r-r-gh !! Celebrate every victory. Like a pirate.
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Celebrate EVERY victory. Like a pirate.
Watch children practice any game – basketball, soccer, a video game – they play until they “get it right.”
Children DO NOT QUIT when learning is a game.
Play is the work of childhood.
Children play until they succeed. Children do NOT watch the clock when they are playing.
How many times have you asked your child to stop playing a video game — after 2 hours of non-stop play ?
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But mom. I just started.
And they tell you, “But mom, I just started.” After 2 hours of playing !!!Children are unaware of time when they are playing and having fun.
Play is the best learning tool. EVER.
And celebration is a part of that play. It’s a healthy expression of fun. Here’s a great FAN CELEBRATION DANCE. Watch it and enjoy the next 2 minutes!
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Why NOT intentionally create a learning environment that uses play and victory dances that CELEBRATE EPIC WINS ?
Why not have a great Celebration Dance after studying spelling and math and social studies ?
Daniel, age 5, and Lucas, age 9, read and do homework in the SAME PLACE and at the SAME TIME every day.
We celebrate almost every success; and at the end of the study session, Lucas, the older brother, teaches Daniel how to read in a special big-brother mentoring time. Both boys win during this time.
Then we celebrate with high fives ! And epic dances with our most creative and energized moves ! Why not ?
The result: Daniel learns how to read. And Lucas learns some patience AND learns how to teach a valuable skill. What a joy ! What a DOUBLE EPIC WIN !
An EPIC win that will have positive results the rest of their lives.
This daily study event takes some planning and is an intentional planned event focused on creating successes and celebration dances.
So if play is a great learning tool …
… and celebration is part of that play, why not use these tools intentionally ?
Why not plan “play” and “celebration” into every learning event ?
Why not have a victory dance or a celebration routine planned and intentional ? And why not use celebration frequently to enjoy the wins ?
And make every win an EPIC WIN. As a parent, you get to choose.
You say this takes too much time …
… and does not fit into your mindset of being a productive and efficient adult role model.
This works for us. Yes, celebration takes time, but the learning curve is ALWAYS SHORTENED for usbecause we have fun and we celebrate.
I challenge you to make some intentional changes in your homework routine. If you need some ideas, look here for some ideas — Revenge of the Jedi Rebel.
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Celebrate EPIC WINS
Celebrating EPIC WINS is a great learning tool.
Do you remember your school day ?
Do you remember those days when you brought home a paper with a score of 97 %. That’s 97 correct answers out of 100 possible questions. I remember.
I remember. I arrived at home PROUD and EMPOWERED and feeling like a SUPER HERO. With a 97 % . An EPIC WINuntil…
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Focus on his wins. Not his wrong answers.
… the adult in charge IMMEDIATELY looked at the 3 RED X MARKSand commented, “Why did you miss these 3 ? I know you know the answer to these 3 questions.”
You studied hard, and you had an EPIC WIN; but where is the joy and the fun and the celebration now ?
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Don’t Ruin an Epic Win
Celebrate E-V-E-R-Y victory
An EPIC WIN becomes an Epic Failure; because you are reminded that you missed 3 questions.
And all you heard in your mind was, “You’re NOT GOOD ENOUGH.You still missed 3 questions.” And you forget that you did get 97 right.
And the adult in charge (dad | mom) just turned a MAJOR WIN into a reminder that you are NEVER GOOD ENOUGH.
And your young child gets to hear that negative message in their mind the rest of their life – no exaggeration ! Read the research.
I hope you’re NOT doing the same thing with your children.
Instead celebrate EVERY EVENT
…with a hashtag selfie. Why not ?
Tweet your wins. Facebook your wins with selfies. And, to your child, make every WIN an EPIC WIN.
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Celebrate with a HASHTAG SELFIE. Make EVERY win an EPIC WIN.
You get to choose – to celebrate.
Celebrate the wins. ALL of the wins.
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As a parent, you now get to CHOOSE TO CHANGEthe homework routine for your children – INTENTIONALLY and with a CLEAR PURPOSE.
You get to break the cycle of negativity.
Every kid wants to be a SUPER HERO – at least for a moment.
This morning getting out of bed was a grind.I was NOT motivated, NOT inspired, NOT at peace with my day or my goals. NOT at peace with my purpose in this world.
You know the feeling. Children not behaving to your expectations. Car problems – AGAIN. Money problems – AGAIN. Poor sleep and nightmares – again. And the list keeps getting longer. But you’re not motivated. You’re discouraged and depressed today. For some reason.
Just grinding.
Hey, so I decided. Today it’s OK. Just to grind. Just for today. With no expectations. I decided just to grind through this day. Just grind.
I decided. Just don’t let today become a GIANT ZERO.
Or, worst yet, don’t let today become a GIANT NEGATIVE day. Where I intentionally sabotage myself and lose ground on my goals.
Just because I’m feeling sorry for myself and feeling discouraged.
Just grinding.Some days this is all I can do. And it feels so disappointing. But grinding is all I can do today.
Disappointing to have some goals – big goals. And big commitments. And to just be grinding today. I’m thinking, “This is NOT how we accomplish great things.”
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feeling drained AND just grinding today ?
And today I feel drained …
… just grinding.
Even before the day started – so unmotivated. Having such a huge amount of mental clutter. Like a head full of angry drunken monkeys.
Have you ever felt like this ?
Thankfully, I don’t have too many mornings like this. But when I do, I often use this unmotivated morning to sabotage my entire day,to sabotage my afternoon and my night AND to sabotage a few more days. It’s like collecting and storing all the guilt and remorse about not pursuing my goals. And validating all of my guilt and remorse. Being about as happy and positive as Mr. Grinch.
So I can use this stored guilt …
… to ruin a few more days and to keep thinking “since I am such a failure …, why even bother ?” Since my personal and professional issues are so overwhelming, why even try ? And then fulfill these negative expectations.
Giving great power to breaking all of those personal promises. About my daily commitments.
Breaking my promises …
to write 500 words every morning,
to finish that book this year,
to run every morning,
to read and mediate every morning,
to pray every day,
to create my to-do list the night before,
to be super charged,
to be ready to “rock and roll”every morning,
to get going early (5:00 a.m.) every morning.
And my list of broken promises to myself gets longer during the day. And the drunken monkeys in my head get even crazier. And start throwing mental poop – like they do in the zoo. These drunken monkeys create a real “poop feast” in my brain. Now I’m starting to scare myself with my negative thinking.
I start to collect all of my failures during the day. And feed and nurture them.
I remind myself of all of my previous failures. Wow, this negative reinforcement is really working. My negative mind keeps rolling during these unmotivated and discouraging mornings.
Have you ever been there ?
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just for today – put one f00t in front of the other
One foot in front of the other …
Well, maybe on one of these unmotivated days – like today, it would be OK just to move forward on one small goal. Any goal – just to create a feeling of accomplishment. And to create a feeling of forward moment.
Or just NOT to fall too far behind on my goals.
Or just NOT to sabotage myself.
And just NOT to let today’s lack of motivation carry into the afternoon, and tonight and then into tomorrow morning.
I need to create some forward momentum from one small goal accomplished to …
… to just NOT allow this unmotivated moment or morning to destroy tomorrow’s motivation as well. To avoid being forced into failure before I even begin.
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Just grinding …
So, just for today, this unmotivated day. This unmotivated morning. Just grinding will be good enough.And I will settle for good enough.
Because it is the best I have to offer today.
Just for today. Just for this morning.
When you talk to people who have achieved great goals, they will tell you. That some days – some days they are discouraged. And they just grind. They put on their blindfold and just grind one step at a time. (Watch this video – 5:37 of extreme “one step at a time.”)
They just put one foot in front of the other.
Just doing the next thing on their list. Out of habit. Unmotivated, and just grinding.
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just grinding today ? guess what ! you’re gonna be OK.
Just grinding …
So – just for today – you decide. That you will be OK with just grinding.Just for today.
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